it sounds like the verse underscores friends out of convenience by their proximity compared to relatives but that perception, im sure, is much to shallow. friends are neighbors and neighbors are to be considered friends even if theyre actually ones enemies. meaning that even the samaritan in your life should be respected and shown kindness too. in that way we as disciples distinguish ourselfs by loving our neighbors AND enemies as ourselves.
the other thing about friends, i suppose, is that they can come from unlikely places so dont discount people before you get to know them or anything like that. in my flinn class i may have instantly connected with some people and know (somewhat uncertainly) that we'll be friends, but even with others dont jump to fast or close any doors when we've just barely begun. and to be honest, that really goes for any of the people i "know" going into my UA freshman year. eyes open and hang out with any of them--while being safe, of course and avoiding... _those_ types of situations.
so hang out with them and give them a chance. friendships a two way street so make sure you do your share(: hit up your bassoonist friend and keep up with the JC justice league~ (the only thing im thinking right now is oh, she didnt even offer after i mentioned my bear down camp dilemma.. but its probably not that big a deal yet? we've only been friends for a little while and i shouldnt expect any favor like that i dont think). and im going to be the best friend possible--thats the only way to know whos at fault, if im already doing everything that _i_ can.
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